Have you ever had the experience where you want something so bad and it just never seems to happen, and then the minute you finally give up and no longer care whether it happens or not it does? If so, you’ve stumbled across one of the greatest secrets behind the Law of Attraction.
When you want something really, really bad, you want a certain outcome. You may want THAT love, or THAT job. Or you may want to get THAT book deal or an invitation to THAT event. Wanting a certain outcome badly means that you DON’T WANT the opposite of that outcome. If I just have to get married, that means I really don’t want to be single. If I just have to get that new job, that means I really don’t want to stay in the job I’m in now. And if you’re familiar with the Law of Attraction, you know that one of the biggest blocks to getting what you want is putting energy or focus around what you don’t want because then you’ll just attract more of what you don’t want into your life.
Ideally, you want to get to a point where you don’t need your desires to manifest. One of the fastest ways to push whatever you want away from you is to need it. You may have seen this principle in action when looking at either relationships you’ve been in or someone you know. What happens in a relationship when one person is too needy? The other person backs away. The same holds true for anything, according to the Law of Attraction. If you need something, you’re going to push it away.
So what should you do instead? You can prefer that things turn out a certain way. You may prefer to attract a lot of money, but you have to believe that you’ll be fine if you don’t. You would prefer to be in a healthy relationship, but if you don’t, you’re committed to having a fabulous life.
You might say this sounds like you’re giving up, but what you’re really doing is making peace with your life the way it is. When you make peace with something, there is no resistance and you feel good. When you feel good, you’re going to attract to you more things that feel good. The things in your life that you want to manifest are things that will bring good feelings to you so you can’t attract them if you’re currently feeling bad because they won’t be alignment. But once you stop caring whether you get them or not, you’ll manifest such good feelings in your life that those desires will be drawn to you. Try it and see.
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