So can the Law of Attraction be applied to love? Of course it can, but there are a few reasons one should proceed with caution. One of the most common questions I hear is whether or not you can use the Law of Attraction to attract the love you want. On an abstract level you can. If you intend to have love in your life, and you believe and expect it to come and focus on all of the ways in which love is currently in your life, then bam, you’ll find instance after instance of love in your life. Now if you’re hoping to use the Law of Attraction to make a particular person fall in love with you, that’s where you may run into some problems.
The Law of Attraction and all other Spiritual laws work toward the good of all. The Law of Attraction does not favor one person over another, so it would never help you to control someone or make someone do something he or she does not want to do. In fact, the only way two people can come together in a relationship is for both people on some level to intend to attract that relationship into their lives.
It’s also just plain unethical to use the Law of Attraction to make someone do what you want them to do. How would you feel if your free will were taken away from you. When in doubt, do unto others what you would want done unto you.
However, there are practical ways that you can use the Law of Attraction to bring more love into your life. If you’re already in a relationship that you would like to strengthen, check your focus. Make sure you’re noting all of the things that you love about the person rather than the things that annoy you. Compliment him or her. Ignore the things that you wish were different. Write down in a gratitude journal all of the things that you love about him or her.
If you’re hoping to attract a certain relationship into your life, think about the qualities you want that person to possess and then acknowledge where you’ve already attracted those qualities into your life. If you’re looking for someone who is dependable, acknowledge all of the people in your life who already possess that characteristic. If you’re looking for someone who is emotionally supportive, acknowledge the little ways in which others already offer that support. You attract more of what you focus on. Once you see that you already have everything you want, those desires can make themselves seen in a more evident way.
If a relationship is really bringing you down, consider cutting it out of your life. If you can’t cut the cords completely, limit the amount of time this person has in your life. A negative relationship will naturally cause you to focus on things that you don’t want because you don’t want that type of relationship. If you continue to spend time in this type of relationship you’ll begin to see your other relationships suffer as your focus leads you to manifest more unhealthy relationships. On the flip side, if you consciously devote more time and energy to the relationships that do bring you job, you’ll begin to see all of your relationships improve. The Law of Attraction does not discriminate. Whether you realize it or not, you’re already manifesting. Make sure you do so wisely.