If you’ve started working with crystals to enhance your love life, boost your personal growth, or improve your finances, congratulations on making a step that can transform your life dramatically. But don’t give up on crystal magick too soon!
Crystals have healing properties and they vibrate at a higher energy level than we do. When we spend time with a particular crystal, it can impact our own energetic vibration, which can then transform our worlds. We attract things that are at our current vibration. When we change that vibration, we change our world.
So if you want to improve your love life, you might wear crystals that are known to heal your heart chakra. Crystals such as Rose Quartz and Malachite are known to help to bring positive developments into your relationships. Likewise, crystals such as Ametrine and Brazilianite are known to have money manifestation qualities.
There are a number of ways that you can work with crystals. Choose the technique that resonates with you.
You might sleep with a crystal under your pillow, or meditate with a crystal every day. I like to wear crystal jewelry, such as a bracelet or a necklace. That way, I don’t have to remember to do anything, and the crystal reminds me of my intention to work on a particular area of my life throughout the day.
So naturally, when we work with crystals, we want to see results, right? If we want to get over heartbreak, we want to feel better. If we’re looking for a relationship, we want to see evidence that the crystal is working. If we’re working on money issues, we want our money troubles to end. But how long will it take?
That’s where the Spiritual Law of Allowing comes in. The Law of Allowing asks us to surrender and allow the Universe to work on our behalf. It requires us to let go and detach from the outcome trusting that we’ve done all that we can and the Universe will take care of the rest.
We must give crystals an opportunity to make a difference. Not only does it take time for the healing qualities to make an impact, but we must show that we have faith in the healing work that we are engaging in.
Intuitively, you’ll feel when it’s time to put a crystal away or work with another crystal. You’ll simply stop relying on the crystal as much. You won’t feel as drawn to it. It will let you know that the work is done. You might not see the results you want yet in your physical life, but remember that things change on an energetic level before the physical manifestation takes place. So things are different in the spiritual realm that we can’t always see before we notice the changes around us.
If you want to stop using a crystal because you’re frustrated and you think it’s not working, you probably would be better served by giving the crystal more time to do its thing. Frustration is a sign that you are putting up resistance and blocking what you really want.