So here’s the million-dollar question: Can you use the Law of Attraction to get your ex back? Those who have recently broken up with their partner may be particularly interested in figuring out how to use metaphysical knowledge to win love. You may wonder if your ex even wants you back. (Click here to learn the five secret signs that your ex wants you back). There are a number of different answers and approaches to using the Law of Attraction to bring love into your life, and interestingly, one man says he’s used the Law of Attraction to win his ex-girlfriend back and you can too. (Once you read this post, click here to read about whether there are ethical problems with using the Law of Attraction to get your ex back.)
When it comes to lost love, we’ve all been there. In fact, it’s probably one of the most painful and difficult things you can go through. It’s particularly painful when we have a breakup and later realize that we’re still in love with our ex. We may try to move on and go out with new people, only to have our minds drift back to what could have been and the relationship that ended. Often we compare new people to our ex partners and invariably they fall short. Being lovesick can also lead to sleepless nights, tears and downright loneliness. So who wouldn’t want to use a little mojo or magic to spruce up their love lives and feel hope and happiness again?
In some cases, the relationship may not, in fact, be totally over. Many couples break up and spend some time apart only to later find their way back to each other. They may date other people in the interim, but in the back of their minds there is always that feeling of loss and the wondering of what could have happened had that relationship not ended. There’s often the sense that ‘the one’ may have gotten away.
In these cases, the Law of Attraction can help you to create a vibration in your life that is conducive to getting your ex back — or an even better love. With that thought in mind, Andre Wilkie created a program for getting your ex back using the Law of Attraction after he and his girlfriend of five years broke up. At first he was so miserable that all he could feel was anger, hurt and depression. He constantly dwelled upon the fact that she was gone from his life and he focused on the lack of love around him.
Like many of us he kept re-playing the painful moments over and over again in his head — the arguments, the fact that his girlfriend had left him. And he projected the failure of that relationship into the future. How could he find love again? If she didn’t want him, why would someone else want him? He kept it going like a broken record, on and on and on. He tried contacting her but she wasn’t having it.
Until he learned about the Law of Attraction and realized that his focusing on the breakup and the heartache were keeping heartache around him. He realized that he wouldn’t be able to attract his ex back or anyone else back if he didn’t shift his vibration from one that resonated loss and depression to one that resonated confidence and joy. He realized that the work he needed to do in order to repair that relationship was inner work. He had to make an inner shift of his vibration in order to see a shift in his outer life.
So that’s what he did. He used Law of Attraction techniques to start to focus more on the good things that were happening in his life. He also used a process called the Emotional Freedom Technique, or EFT, which is a method of removing negative emotions from your life. By using these processes, Wilkie became calmer, more peaceful and less anxious. He stopped feeling like a loser and his confidence started to rise.
Using the Law of Attraction to get your ex back (or someone better)
Have you ever noticed that an ex or other people from your past will call or seemingly pop up in your life when you’re feeling great and sometimes even embarking on a new relationship?
That’s because your vibration has shifted from one of lack to one of abundance and prosperity and your ex and all of those past love interests can just sense it in the air. What Wilkie does is he helps you to get to this stage consciously and he helps you to get there faster by focusing on Law of Attraction techniques designed to help you reach your goal.
Wilkie did reconnect with his ex and she re-entered his life, but only after his vibration and inner world had changed. Because the processes that he learned worked, Wilkie decided to create a package of video demonstrations so that others who wanted to shift their relationship vibe could learn the techniques.
Why You Shouldn’t Focus on One Person
There is, however, something that you should keep in mind. The Law of Attraction works best when you don’t tie the Universe’s hands. How do you know your ex is the best person for you? There may be someone else that would bring you even more joy. Rather than using the Law of Attraction to get your ex back, instead think about the good qualities of the relationship that you had with your ex and use the Law of Attraction to manifest another relationship that has that qualities. It may be with your ex and it may not be with your ex. Either way, you’re getting what you wanted.
If you’re not sure whether you want your ex back, and you’re confused about what steps to take, a psychic may also be able to give you some insight into whether rekindling an old relationship is in your best interest. Click here to find one.