Can the Law of Attraction save a marriage from divorce?

Relationships can be challenging, but they can be particularly difficult if you are married and think you’re headed for divorce.  You may have a ton of questions running around in your mind. Can the marriage be saved? Is it worth saving in the first place? If you decide that you want to save it, you may wonder how you can do so. The Law of Attraction can help you if you put a number of strategies in place. First of all, it’s important to understand the tenets of the Law of Attraction. Your thoughts attract things to you. Your expectations are powerful, and those things that you expect tend  to become reality. Likewise, those things in your life that you focus on become larger while the things that you take your focus away from get smaller.

marriageWhat are you thinking about your marriage? Are you focused on the conflict, tension and problems? Are you telling your friends about the difficulties that you’re having? Are you noticing all of the ways that your spouse is not living up to the expectations that you have for him or her? If any of that sounds familiar, you’re actually using the Law of Attraction to manifest a divorce. You’re focusing on all of the things that you don’t want and in doing so, you’re giving power to the unwanted outcome.

Instead, you can use the Law of Attraction to your advantage.

—You can take a certain amount of time per day to think about all of the things you’re grateful for about your spouse. If that’s difficult to do at first, do it for only a few minutes each day. Your positive thoughts about your spouse will attract more positive thoughts and in time it will be easier to think of positive things to appreciate.

—You can visualize the way you want your marriage to be. Don’t get hung up on what’s going on now. Instead picture in detail the changes you want. Do you want to spend more  time together? Visualize date nights, vacations and other time together. Do you want more quality time? Imagine intimate conversations and connecting with your spouse.

—Act as if the marriage is going the way you want. Actions speak louder than words, and actions are very powerful when it comes to the Law of Attraction. Instead of picking a fight, go out of your way to nurture your spouse. Love is like money when it comes to the Law of Attraction. The more you give, the more you get. By giving more love to your spouse, you’re paving the way for the Universe to send it back to you.

If you’re having a difficult time shifting your mindset from a negative one to a positive one, don’t feel bad, you’re not alone. But you can get help with that. Amy Waterman is the author and host of Save My Marriage Today, and she’s helped thousands of couples stop their divorces largely by overhauling their thought processes. Through her work, she’s learned that most couples run into the same couple of pitfalls, and she’s  created a program that you can download and start using today to address those common pitfalls head-on and turn your marriage around.

In the program:

—She shares the two emotions that you likely are experiencing that are pushing your spouse away (and how to move past those emotions). You’ll be surprised by how simple this is and why you didn’t realize you were doing this yourself.

—She also teaches you how to stop the negative thoughts and feelings that you have and instead see your spouse with trust, love, and happiness. (It’s one thing to say this is how the Law of Attraction works and quite another to actually follow the principles.)

—She shows you a mind trick that will help you focus on the positive aspects of your marriage (leading to an increase in positive experiences and an improvement in the marriage).

Once you can make a shift in mindset, you’ll see a shift in your marriage. Learn more about Amy’s program here.


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